a very important question*

Chopsticks or no chopsticks?


They are obviously pro-chopsticks.

I have no pictures to prove it, but I'm anti-chopsticks. Sure, go ahead and use 'em; that doesn't bother me. For myself, I want my familiar metal utensils.

For my kids, though, I love watching them use chopsticks! (They like to copy Daddy, who is pro-chopstick.)


Actually, Robs is an equal-opportunity fellow. He loves the chopsticks,


But he likes to keep a good hold on his fork too.


And, of course, he opts for utensil/chopstick-free eating from time to time.


What about you? Are you a utensil lover like me, a chopstick lover like Lee and Jocelyn, or a hybrid ambi-eatingmethod-erous fellow like the Robster?

*and, no, I don't suppose this is really a very important question. But I am curious!

where i've been

But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.
Luke 2:19

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.”
Psalm 46:10

It's been a long time since I've let my little corner of the blogosphere go quiet for a couple weeks. I have had pictures I wanted to share, books I'm past due in reviewing, and thoughts wanting to spill out. I certainly haven't had writer's (blogger's?) block or anything of the sort.

I've been pondering quietly.
I've been still.

I haven't intentionally not blogged.

I have intentionally taken some time to think through some weighty life and faith issues. And I've intentionally been beautifying my home life, both in the physical sense as I've been busy with house projects and in the relational sense as Lee and I have dated more and gotten on the floor to play more.

It's been lovely. And by "lovely," I mean tears are coming to my eyes right now at how thankful I am for what God has done in my life and my heart in the past couple weeks and the past couple months.

I'll probably have to hold myself back from publishing a gazillion and one posts in the next week or two, because you probably don't want to read 27 posts a day from me, huh? :) To give a glimpse of what's to come, though (and to give myself a list so I don't forget the posts that have been ruminating in my skull), you can most likely expect
  •  a post about depression and friendship that I wanted to write for the last six months of 2010 but that I wasn't ready for until I drafted it a week or two ago,
  • a health-focused post that I'm more excited about than any in the past (disclaimer required by my age and by the number of round bellies in my circle of friends: no, I'm not pregnant nor presently aspiring to be),
  • confessions from a recovering I-can-do-it-all-my-myself gal who is really honestly trying not to shun help from others,
  • an update on my lengthy list of resolutions for 2011, 
  • a metaphor-focused post about the object that I think best represents healthy special needs ministry, both as it is now and as it could be,
  • approximately four trillion book reviews, and
  • approximately five trillion and one photo posts.
I might even throw in a couple of Christmas-related posts I drafted on the back of my Bible study outlines in November. (No, of course not during Bible study. *ahem* Or maybe it was. I live a little in ADHDland, so sometimes it's harder for me to focus on one thing - like the teacher - than it is for me to mostly focus on two things - like the teacher and my random notes. What I mean is...squirrel!!!)

And for now, I'll leave you to ponder this.

fun times for rainy days

On a rainy day (which, by the way, isn't in the forecast this week! yay for warm weather and no rain!!!), it's fun to

put on a dancing show for your dog,


put yourself in timeout occasionally (though I still don't know what she thinks she did to deserve it),


jump on the bed (with a shirt that would make any TFAer smile; it says "big goal maker." yes, yes, it's about soccer, but I think of TFA every time he wears it),


spoon with the dog,


and pick your nose while your brother dismantles the humidifier in the background.


(These are also all reasons that I'm glad the weather will be beautiful enough this week to avoid the great indoors!)

Celebrating the new year with family

Yes, I'm a little behind. And I have new stuff from the past week, spending time with Lee's family for his grandmother's funeral and spending time with sweet friends along the way, but that will all come in due time. (Which, for me, probably means in a month or two. I'm just not one of those bloggers who takes pictures in the morning and has the post up in the afternoon. I'd love to be that pulled together, but that's not in the forecast any time soon.)

On New Year's Day, we headed over to my grandmother's house in Winston-Salem to spend the day with her, as well as my sister and her boyfriend who had come up for a visit. That was a treat because we rarely see each other, other than brief visits here and there.

It was so sweet to actually get to spend a little time with Lis and James!


As as you can see above, even sweet Cady came along.


Cady is willing to share Lis with James, which is saying a lot. She's a rescue dog who was found owner-less after Hurricane Katrina, and she obviously experienced some ugliness at the hands of a man because she's not fond of the menfolk. James has gotten her approval, though!


Cady even got to meet her cousin-in-fur and fellow rescue mutt, Napoleon.


Cady and Napoleon didn't play much together (Cady's a little skittish about other dogs sometimes), but she did just fine with our other pint-sized guy!


They even exchanged kisses!


Because Cady growled once at Lee, though, Daddy's girl wasn't so sure about her canine cousin.


I love capturing her personality on film. (Yes, yes, I know it's not film. But "on SD card" just doesn't have the same ring to it.)

One thing I cannot pass up on getting on film is loved ones reading books with my children. It's even more rare to get good candid shots of Nana because she prefers to pose formally whenever a camera is in view.

But this?


Melts.my.heart.


While I was able to capture the sweet reading moment, I'm still learning the ins and outs of my camera. I love the picture below, but I managed to get the poinsettia in focus and my main men out of focus. It's still mighty precious nonetheless!


I'm learning more and more about using my trusty DSLR, and it's pretty fun to figure out. Even my okay pictures with it are a bazillion and one times better than most of my good pictures with my old camera. And you've gotta admit that a picture like the one below wouldn't look as cool with a little point and shoot camera, right?


But back to our day with family...dinosaur, anyone?


Our sweet girl insists on opening other people's presents. We restrain that part of her at parties for her friends, but great-grandmothers don't typically mind that sort of thing.


And as for our little man, he might as well have hung the moon in Nana's eyes. She has always favored little boys, and our handsome fella was named after her father and twin brother.


How precious they are!


But who wouldn't love a guy who has his own spinning dance parties in the foyer?


He doesn't suck his thumb much unless he's tired or hurt, but he does occasionally opt for the bored hand-sucking.

 
While our girl has long since given up the thumb, she isn't too big for her mimi (the purple blankie). Shout out to our friend Heather for giving us the most used and loved new baby gift four years ago! There is no mimi like purple mimi.


Nana was impressed as how well our little man was trained to keep his arms behind his back when we were around all the breakables in her house. (Umm, confession: he isn't trained to do that. That day he just decided it would be fun to walk around with his hands behind his back, something that has amused him a few times since then. We had never seen him do it before New Year's Day.)


And another confession: We didn't tell Nana that we hadn't trained him to do that. We just smiled when she complimented us on that. (And, considering that she still doesn't know how to use a computer, much less how to access our blog, that secret will stay safe here.)

Finally, if you've hung in here this long (I would apologize for the length, but I'm not really sorry, so I'll keep it real by omitting the "sorry it's so long" mumbo jumbo), here are some of my favorite pictures from the visit. Though Christmas seems like it was more than a month and a half ago, I'm still awestruck by the beauty of Nana's tree. Let it be a reminder to us all to celebrate Christ all year!